with Ruby May
Hello dear you,
As women, we’ve tried fitting into a man-made world in the name of equality, so that we can be taken seriously and play on the same playing field.
And the result is that as well as having made ‘progress,’ we’re exhausted.
The truth is that our bodies are designed to function a little differently.
We have wombs! We are cyclical!
It’s not an easy path: to befriend our female bodies in a world in which disconnect is the norm and our menstrual cycle is seen as a curse.
But reconnecting with this wisdom (yes, our bodies contain profound wisdom!) requires we question what’s really true and strip away our negative cultural conditioning. That we stop seeing our physical and emotional challenges as something going ‘wrong’ but our body and soul, intelligently speaking to us. And that we develop the sensitivity and courage to slow down and feel.
Our wombs offer us a profound inner guidance system and a key to reclaiming our sense of connection, well-being, with fuelling our creativity and alignment with our sacred purpose in life.
My mentoring work centres around supporting you to discover this.
○ wish to connect with and understand the different phases of your menstrual cycle and how it’s ‘working’ you through the challenging parts
○ would like to explore life beyond being a ‘human-doing’, and cultivate a more balanced and integrated approach to living
○ are curious to get to know your own body more, learn to read her language, follow her guidance and feel a sense of belonging and home within
○ want to heal your relationship to ‘the Feminine,’ understand her qualities and how to embody them in healthy, balanced ways
○ are ready to explore new expressions of power, that have little to do with force or dominance
○ would like support in the journey of ‘shedding’ and bigger life transitions and walking the path of the unknown
○ wish to look at your conditioning around people pleasing and putting others needs before yours, and start living more courageously
Ruby’s coaching gives me a space to talk to the deepest parts of me that I sometimes do not always give space for, helping me to listen to my inner voice. I am grateful for the way she would never let me get away with fooling myself but really going beyond all my layers until I got to what felt like the truth of the matter. There were many, many moments of ‘aha’, and they continue to ripple out months and months later….
A seriously sumptuous, sometimes subtle and other times dramatic, time of transformation. I feel like I’ve come home.
75 mins : 90 euros
6 x 75 mins (1 per week or every other week) : 499 euros // also payable in instalments //
Curious to get to know me a little?
A little bit more about me
Although my work is of course informed by the various trainings I have completed in the past ( MSc in Psychology, certified Sexological Bodyworker, Pelvic Heart Integration with Deborah Anapol, Menstruality Leadership and Cyclical Business training with the Red School & Collective Trauma with Thomas Hübl), what I have to offer is mainly thanks to four decades of the life experience and enquiry and two decades of spiritual mentorship.
Some of the themes that I feel I have been initiated into through my life experiences:
Burn out and addiction to ‘doing’, navigating different relationship forms, menstrual cycle awareness and living cyclically, living in community, being a hyper-sensitive, dealing with complex PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder), working with the inner child and the inner tyrant, developing self-compassion and kindness, being a self-employed entrepreneur and ‘living the dream’, working with plant spirits, shadow integration, authentic sexual expression, moving beyond co-dependent relating, boundaries, needs, emotional literacy & body literacy.
“Working with Ruby for 3 months, has seen me transition in a way I was not expecting. It brought to light to a lot of what was happening already but in a safe, curious, loving way that allows for change to just appear. The cycle awareness has helped me transition and blossom, it feels, into womanhood!
Ruby is like a gentle sister, helping me witness and celebrate my achievements, giving voice to my inner critic and space for my inner child. Our weekly calls helped me keep my inner dialogue and reflection process alive and offered a lot of acceptance into what is.