On love without attachment…

On love without attachment…

I’ve witnessed a lot of people talking about the importance of love without attachment – especially in neo tantra and polyamory scenes – and this is creating what I believe is a lot of spiritual bypassing, shame and misunderstanding. Let’s get...
Everything begins with me

Everything begins with me

Everything begins in my body… What would intimately connecting with others be like if we came from a place of being saturated with the simple yet profound pleasure of feeling at home in our body? What if through our own presence penetrating our cells, turning...
On falling in love and abandoning oneself

On falling in love and abandoning oneself

There is nothing quite like falling in love to show you where you are abandoning yourself… When we feel disconnected or hurt or resentful because we let our partner cross a boundary, or realise we are manipulating or controlling in order to get love, or ignore...
On “getting a grip” on Sex

On “getting a grip” on Sex

Through the shaming I received around sex growing up, my strategy to feel a sense of ease around it led me to unconsciously battle shame through cultivating a sense that there was nothing I was fazed by. This journey came to a head when I found myself on a porn set in...